You’re Not Lazy, You’re Overwhelmed: When Getting Out of Bed Feels Like a Lot

Struggling to do things that “should” be easy? That’s not laziness it’s often a nervous system in overdrive.

Anxiety, depression, trauma, and burnout can all show up as:

  • Brain fog

  • Low motivation

  • Shame for not doing “more”

Instead of pushing through, try asking: “What would this look like if it felt 10% easier?”

Therapy can help you understand your patterns and build habits that don’t rely on willpower alone.

🌿 Micro-Goal: Pick one thing today that feels doable. Celebrate completing it—even if it’s just brushing your teeth.

www.clairvilletherapygroup.com

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