Clairville Therapy Group

Struggling to do things that “should” be easy? That’s not laziness it’s often a nervous system in overdrive. Anxiety, depression, trauma, and burnout can all show up as: Brain fog Low motivation Shame for not doing “more” Instead of pushing through, try asking: “What would this look like if it felt 10% easier?” Therapy can help you understand your patterns and build habits that don’t rely on willpower alone. 🌿 Micro-Goal: Pick one thing today that feels doable. Celebrate completing it—even if it’s just brushing your teeth. www.clairvilletherapygroup.com

Some couples fight often. Others never raise their voices but feel miles apart. Both are signs something’s stuck. Conflict-avoidance isn’t peace. It’s often: Fear of being rejected. Belief that “talking makes it worse.” A childhood pattern of walking on eggshells. We all carry attachment styles from early relationships that shape how we relate now. Therapy helps couples understand these dynamics and find new ways to connect—even during conflict. 💬 Ask Yourself: “Am I expressing my needs, or hoping my partner reads my mind?” www.clairvilletherapygroup.com

Do you ever feel like no matter how much you do, it’s never quite “enough”? That’s perfectionism talking and it’s exhausting. Perfectionism isn’t always about high standards. Sometimes it looks like: Procrastination because starting feels overwhelming. Constant self-doubt. Difficulty resting, even when you're tired. Perfectionism often develops from early experiences of needing to achieve to feel safe, accepted, or valued. In therapy, we explore where these patterns began and how to loosen their grip. We practice shifting from perfection to presence. 🌱 Today’s Practice: Choose one task to do “good enough”—then walk away. Let that be a win. www.clairvilletherapygroup.com

  Postpartum Mental Health: Beyond the Baby Blues The early days after giving birth are often painted as joyful and glowing. But for many women, they’re messy, exhausting, and lonely. You may feel: Sad or anxious without knowing why. Overwhelmed by intrusive thoughts. Detached from your baby or yourself. These aren’t signs that you’re a bad mother—they’re signs that you’re struggling, and that’s okay. Postpartum mood and anxiety disorders (PMADs) are real, treatable, and common. You deserve support that meets you with compassion, not judgment. Therapy can help you reconnect to yourself and find steadier ground. 🤱 Reminder: You’re not failing. You’re human. And you don’t have to do this alone. www.clairvilletherapygroup.com

  "You're Not Hearing Me!" — Fixing the Disconnect in Couple Communication "You're Not Hearing Me!"  Fixing the Disconnect in Couple Communication Most couples don’t struggle because they don’t love each other. They struggle because they don’t feel understood . Common reasons communication breaks down: Listening to respond, not to understand. Making assumptions. Letting unresolved resentment build up. A powerful tool you can try is the “I feel, I need” script: “I feel [emotion] when [situation], and I need [specific need].” Example: “I feel overwhelmed when I’m the only one handling bedtime. I need us to talk about sharing this routine.” It sounds simple—but it shifts conversations from blame to collaboration. 🗣️ Try This Tonight: Use the script in a low-stakes conversation. It builds emotional muscle over time.

 Not Just Tired: Recognizing Burnout in Women Many women are juggling full-time jobs, caregiving responsibilities, emotional labour in relationships, and trying to keep it all together. It’s no wonder burnout shows up, but often, it doesn’t look like what you’d expect. Instead of feeling “exhausted,” you might feel: Irritable over small things. Detached from people or things you used to enjoy. Guilty for not doing “enough.” Unmotivated but constantly busy. Burnout in women often flies under the radar because we push through. But rest isn’t weakness—it's repair. Therapy can help you understand where your energy is going, what’s depleting you, and how to set boundaries that protect your peace.

By  Yolanda Testani, RP | Clairville Therapy Group Relationships are meant to bring us joy, connection, and support. However, for some, the thought of navigating a relationship can trigger feelings of anxiety. Relationship anxiety can manifest in many ways — from worrying about your partner’s feelings towards you to constantly questioning the stability of the relationship. If you’re experiencing relationship anxiety, you’re not alone. It’s a common struggle that many people face, but the good news is that it’s something you can manage and overcome with the right tools and support. What is Relationship Anxiety? Relationship anxiety is the feeling of unease or worry within a romantic relationship. It often involves fear of rejection, fear of abandonment, or excessive worry about how the relationship is progressing. This anxiety can occur during the early stages of dating or even in long-term relationships. Some people with relationship anxiety may feel like they’re walking on eg...